Big Daddy Weave Tour

Two fish. Five loaves. One little boy. When a small lunch was offered to Jesus, He took it and multiplied the simple offering, feeding five thousand. Like that little boy, the members of award-winning band Big Daddy Weave continue to submit their music, their ministry and their lives to Him with their seventh studio album, Beautiful Offerings (Fervent Records/Word Entertainment).

Beautiful Offerings follows the biggest album of the band’s career, Love Come To Life, which yielded the rare feat of four back-to-back #1 singles – “Love Come To Life,” “Redeemed,” “The Only Name (Yours Will Be)” and “Overwhelmed.” “Redeemed” became an anthem of unprecedented impact. Big Daddy Weave members Mike Weaver (lead vocals, guitar), Jay Weaver (bass, vocals), Jeremy Redmon (guitar, vocals), Joe Shirk (saxophone, keys, vocals) and Brian Beihl (drums) never would have predicted that a vulnerable song written for the lead singer himself, initially deemed by Mike too personal to even turn in for Love Come To Life, would become the group’s best-selling track in their 16-plus year history.

“I thought if I could somehow achieve something for God, that’s what He was going to use,” Mike admits, “but when we shared about brokenness, God used that more than He ever used any of the little successes that we had been given along the way.”

“Redeemed” spent 11 weeks at No. 1, was dubbed “Song of the Year” at the first annual K-LOVE Fan Awards, garnered Dove Award and Billboard Music Award nominations and certified a gold single by the RIAA for sales of over 500,000 records. However, more than all the accolades Big Daddy Weave has achieved, it’s the stories about how the songs have impacted lives that fuel the band’s passion for recording and touring. In fact, they used “Redeemed” as the starting point for the fresh batch of songs hand-picked for Beautiful Offerings.

“This record continues where “Redeemed” left off, celebrating what God has done over the last season,” Mike affirms. “Even as we saw and heard hundreds of amazing things happening in people’s lives, we also saw people who were barely approaching what God is offering. Many people were saying, “Thank God, I am redeemed,” but then going right back into their same old thing,” adds Mike. “We wanted to bring light on that with Beautiful Offerings. Being redeemed is more than the forgiveness and the fact that our past is taken care of. It’s a message of hope that calls us out of where we used to be into a new place. It’s as much about what we are redeemed to as what we are redeemed from.”

“Every day is an opportunity to bless the heart of God through how we live, how we encounter our families, people we see in the grocery store, and everybody we meet,” adds Mike. “This isn’t us buckling down and trying to earn God’s love by pleasing Him. It’s a realization that because we are children of God, we can bless the heart of God by being subject to and directed by Him in every moment of our lives. Our lives then become something that is pleasing to Him. We become a beautiful offering.”

The theme of Beautiful Offerings was the premise for a tour long before it became the title of the band’s next project. It was a concept the five men were already beginning to live out, so it proved a natural compass for the record.

“We worked to find songs that echo where we are now, not just anything that was a song for a song’s sake,” adds Jeremy, who has produced all of the band’s music since their second album. “I went into this really trusting that the Lord is working out the details of it. Even in the sounds and the parts that were chosen, He really made it happen.”

Through Beautiful Offerings, Big Daddy Weave wants to share the message, “Every one of us is beautiful because of what God has deposited in us. Our lives are an opportunity to literally be used for the Kingdom,” Mike explains. “Now we have an opportunity to live in response to who He is. Jesus is the beauty in the offering.”

Taking that approach into worship, Joe observes, “A lot of times we don’t worship the way we should—in our all. We should be offering that. I believe that’s one of the biggest parts of what makes the offering beautiful. It’s not just leftovers; it’s from our gut. It’s from the very core of who we are.”

Joe adds that the songs on the new album are “more chiseled and more focused and directed” as a result of the conversations the band members have nightly following the ministry time at the end of each performance, an intentional time of dedicated dialogue and one-on-one prayer with the people who attend their concerts. It’s been a transformational experience for the band as they’ve seen God work in powerful ways in the lives of people across the country and a theme that emerges in the lead single from the album, “My Story.”

“My Story,” written with GRAMMY®-nominated songwriter Jason Ingram, chronicles not only the story of the band members, but also a larger, overarching narrative. “If I told you my story, you’d see hope, you’d see love, you’d see victory, all these things, but it’s not mine. My story is really the story of what God has done in our lives, and the goodness of that is that it awakens things in other people. Our story is really just part of His story,” Mike offers.

“The idea for the song, “Already Done,” written with Josh Wilson, showed up on the road in the moment of us seeing people receive ‘Redeemed,’” Mike explains. “What we were seeing on the road is people really experience relief from dealing with things in their past, and God challenging us to realize, ‘It’s more than being forgiven. You have a purpose; there is more to this life. There is a greater reason for getting up in the morning. You matter to the Kingdom.’”

Meanwhile, keystone “I Belong To God,” co-written with Matt Redman and Allison Mellon, was inspired by the band’s recent trip to Cambodia. The group heard a story about a young man who had been abandoned by his earthly father and connected so strongly with the Gospel that he would strum a guitar and shout at the top of his lungs: “I belong to God! I belong to God!” The centerpiece of the new song was forged, with the rest of the cut centering around human trafficking, one of the most critical issues facing Cambodia today.

“I don’t know that I’m going to recover from that trip. We saw and heard things that were so terrible that when I got back, I tried to forget about it all,” Mike admits of the trip. “I feel ashamed when I say that. I really felt that I connected with God’s pain in that place, but I was trying to keep the pain at arm’s length. I didn’t realize it was Him at the time showing me what He sees.”

“Letting the truth of that song get a hold of you will really change the way you view God and the way you view others,” Brian adds.

In truth, the transformation they’ve experienced in their own lives and the miracles they’ve witnessed in the lives of others post-“Redeemed” have dramatically challenged the way the five men in Big Daddy Weave approach everything, from the songs they sing to the way they tailor their concerts each night.

“Our focus is definitely not just on coming out with touching songs. Ministry is on the top of the list in terms of what God wants to do night to night,” Joe maintains.

While they’re humbled by No. 1 singles that ensure a large number of people hear their songs, the awards, the fame, the attention, those aren’t the things the band views as significant. Obedience is their standard.

“The things I used to hold as important, or the things I wanted to have control over the past few years, the Lord has allowed me to truly let go of that stuff and not care about it anymore,” Jeremy admits.

Mike echoes Jeremy’s thoughts, adding, “When we hear the Lord, we want to do what He says, whether it looks like success to the world or not.”

After all, the story they’re telling with their music and their lives is not their own. “We just pray these songs touch people’s lives,” Brian offers. “I think that’s what we hope for with this record; that He just takes it further, it reaches more people and that His story comes through in all of this.”

In story and song, the members of Big Daddy Weave simply want their legacy to be one characterized by loving people and telling of the Love that’s changed their lives—their own beautiful offering. “When you see the goodness of the Lord, and it’s evident, not just in life, but in the lives of those around you like we’ve been able to see, all we care about now is just pursuing that and finding more of that,” Jay says. “I think you see that in the songwriting of this record, and I think you see that in the eyes of each member of this band.”

Every song, every concert, every prayer they pray with the people they meet, they are giving it all to Jesus. “It’s about who we give it to,” Mike concludes, “and God can feed everybody with it.”

 

Let’s raise the roof

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Riverbend Family Ministries provides strength and support to those affected by violence, addiction, poverty and homelessness. Some of our services are being interrupted due to leaks in our roof. We have patched it for the last 8 years in order to financially serve clients. In order to continue these vital services, we are in need of partners to help us with a new roof!

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We have gotten various bids to tear off existing years of patch and replace with complete new flat rubber roofing.  Materials,labor,clean-up and permit estimates range between $20,000 to $25,000 to complete this project.  The more we have to spend on this project, the less we will have to spend on our families in crisis. Please consider making this your class, service group, office, or company cause this year. 

 

Be blessed knowing you are being a blessing to so many in this community

Volunteer Scholarship

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Grace Skief was a vibrant and beautiful 11-year-old girl. This energetic young lady spent her time caring for children and animals, and cooking crazy creations. She loved to volunteer every chance she had. One of Gracie’s favorite events each year was the RFM Trivia Night. She was a runner for answer sheets, and she loved to goof off and interact with the players as she passed by each table.

In April of 2015, Gracie was diagnosed with Diffuse Intrinsic Pontine Glioma (Click here to learn more about DIPG). DIPG is a type of cancer that attacks the brain stem. There is no cure, and no useful treatment. In July of 2015, Gracie went home to be with Jesus.

The RFM board of directors has decided to give an annual $500 scholarship to a local high school student who exhibits an interest in volunteering. The Grace Skief Volunteer Memorial Scholarship will be presented with a plaque honoring Grace (courtesy of Budget Signs), and the awardee’s name will be engraved on the plaque hanging in the RFM building. We can think of no better way to honor our beloved volunteer, who made such a difference in so many lives, even in her short time with us.

Gracie was my baby cousin; the youngest of all of us. She always had a mischievous grin, and could brighten up anyone’s day. This scholarship has touched my family in a way we can’t even describe. This is her legacy: her short life was spent helping people, and she will continue to have an impact on lives for long after she’s gone. Thank you for this beautiful gift.

 

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Thank you Budget Signs and Trophies in Wood River designing and giving this gift to the Skief family and RFM. you are a blessing and a friend!

Trivia 2016

Our  Annual Trivia night has been our only fundraiser for the past 8 years. Our community has gathered together and we have sold this event out since it’s beginning. We are so thankful. This year was no exception. We raised over $8000.00 and raised awareness about the incredible work that happens within the walls of RFM. Last year over 700 families and children were helped through services offered. Thank you community for all your support. Let’s do this again next year! It’s always the last Friday night in February. SAVE THE DATE: Friday February 24th, 2017

 

 

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We would like to say a special thank you to these

sponsors of the 2016 RFM Trivia with a Twist :

                   
                   
                   
                   

 

Low-Income Home Energy Assistance Program

Riverbend Family Ministries has become a Madison County off-site location for the Low-Income Home Energy Assistance Program (LIHEAP). This program helps many families keep their power on in the hot and cold seasons. For many Illinois households, energy costs place a severe and continuing stressliheap on a family’s budget. In some instances, the household is forced to make painful decisions regarding which bills to pay and which necessities to survive without. LIHEAP is designed to help eligible low income households pay for winter energy service.

“Our phones have been ringing off the hooks, and we are so blessed to be a part of this program,” said Riverbend Family Ministries Executive Director, Tammy Iskarous. “Having so many new people in the community come into our building to fill out applications for LIHEAP has helped us connect families in crisis with the other wonderful programs in the building. We have been able to connect broken people to the resources that can aid in healing.”

For more information or to setup an appointment, please call: 618-251-9790, M-TH 9am – 1pm.

Trivia with a twist

RFM Trivia with a twist.
Doors open at 6:00 starts at 7:00
bring food but please buy drinks there.
$20.00 per person/ 8 people per table
raffles, prizes and mulligans will be available at additional cost.
trophies (Budget Budget Signs, Trophies, and Plaques awarded to 1st, 2nd, and 3rd place teams

We sell out fast… RSVP your table today by calling
251-9790.

Trivia with a Twist is a lot like the television show Jeopardy!—except that you don’t buzz-in and don’t put answers in question form.

☺There are three rounds: Jeopardy & Double Jeopardy (each with 7 categories, each category with 7 questions) as well as Final Jeopardy. 

☺ Questions are more difficult and worth more points as you work down the board, and as you move from Jeopardy to Double Jeopardy.

Trivia with a Twist allows you to wager any or all of your accumulative points in two ways:

☺ Wager on Daily Doubles (1 in Jeopardy; 2 in Double Jeopardy) and on the Final Jeopardy category.

☺ In each case, tables will see the category and their point totals before making their wager.  When all wagers are submitted, the question is read.

Trivia with a Twist even throws you a curve with Mulligans!

☺ There are 14 categories, but only 10 Mulligans . . . so use them wisely.  However, you can’t use them on Daily Doubles or in Final Jeopardy.

Mulligans are limited to 1 per category, and 5 each for both the Jeopardy and Double Jeopardy rounds.

 

Legacy Continues

After the shock and loss of our dad/husband, we reflect and realize how lucky we were to have him in our lives.  He never met a stranger and treated people with kindness and respect.  He taught by example.  He served his country, married his high school sweet heart and loved her to the day he left.  Late in life he found cycling and when dad did something he did it 100%.  He rode 28 miles a day and it gave him great sense of accomplishment and joy. He always said we were so lucky to have the love of family and friends.  So to honor dad/husband we realize just how lucky we are, and for those that may not be as lucky this gift of bicycles to the children on our community seemed perfect.  Dad is smiling down.
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Legacy Continues
Legacy Continues

Girl’s youth violence prevention program

Girls groups forming now

RAVEN’s Healthy Relationships and Non Violence Education Program for Girls
The Youth Violence Prevention Program offers girls ages 12-17 a 12-week Healthy Relationships and Violence Prevention group.  Each group is 1 hour a week until each youth has fulfilled their obligations.  In this group, youth will be expected to participate with other youth in group discussions and activities. The majority of our program focuses on challenging beliefs and educating about gender and violence, feelings, and behaviors.

ravenRAVEN’s  girls program includes topics such as:

  • Relationship Values and Expectations
  • Power and Control in Relationships
  • Effects of Violence
  • Teen Dating Violence
  • Gender Socialization and Social Pressure
  • Boundaries and Sexual Harassment
  • Assertive Communication
  • Self Esteem
  • Decision Making
  • Role Models
  • Conflict Resolution
  • Experiences of Oppression and Stereotypes

RAVEN currently provides service and groups at no cost in Wood River, IL in conjunction with Riverbend Family Ministries.  You must schedule an assessment before a youth can be enrolled in group. If you are interested in scheduling an assessment or for more information about the RAVEN program, please contact Tammy at Riverbend Family Ministries at (618) 251-9790